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{Wordless Wednesday} Make Today Count.

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Life is short, a limited edition, a single shot.

 Every moment matters.

Every word –  said , unsaid.

Every action.

Every step.

Every breath.

Perhaps you are about to give up on something…

or someone ?

Don’t.

Is someone you know drowning? Burdened? Overwhelmed?

Give them a hand.

A smile.

A hug.

A kiss.

Who am I ? Why am I telling you what to do? Isn’t there enough inspiration on Pinterest, you ask?

In my eyes,

 I am a catalyst. I am an enabler.I am a reminder.

Yet in the bigger scheme, I am no one….but a tiny sliver of me hopes to stir something in you.

Resurrect your faith. Evoke compassion.

Push you off the edge so you will learn to soar.

I believe in you.

Now walk away knowing this.

Make TODAY Count.

No questions today but I would love if you left me a note to say how did you make TODAY count?

linking up today with my lovely friend Grace because its FYBF :)

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DPCON13 Two Days, A Castle And Inspiration Unlimited.

Last week, around a 150 Australian mum and dad bloggers came together over two days at the Digital Parents Conference 2013 aka DPCON13. Not only was it a great occasion to learn more about emerging trends in the blogosphere, mingle and network with peers, seek mentorship from some of the best but also to be inspired, humbled and touched by  the most heart breaking and  moving stories of  loss,heartbreak, love, hope and strength.

Also, for so many of us first timers,  DPCON13  presented an opportunity to finally be able to meet in person with so many of our favourite bloggers/friends. I must admit, the lead up to the event had been a very messy one for me, very messy indeed! So I may have been part consumed with mother guilt for those two days in Sydney.

Feeling overwhelmed, excited, proud, nervous all rolled into one, I made my way into the nothing short of magnificent Curzon Hall that first day.

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What a grand venue!

Being greeted so affectionately at the registration desk by the very lovely Tina Gray of TGDM was such a perfect way to kick off the conference.

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Once inside the main hall, the anxiety of being a first timer slowly peeled away. The ambience, warm, happy and vibrant. Smiles everywhere you turned to look. I knew I was amongst my own. I also knew for the next two days, I could be glued to my phone/laptop/social media streams and it wouldn’t be considered rude. Win!

tweeting away at dpcon

And so I tweeted and tweeted and tweeted.

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Not at all limited to these but some of the sessions that I enjoyed incredibly  were :

Can Blogging Increase Kindness – Jono Fisher from Wake Up Sydney  kicked off the conference with a great keynote on the power of kindness. How a simple  act of giving has the  potential to go a long way. Pay it forward, make kindness contagious!

Blogging Through Adversity – 3 strong women and their stories of heartbreak and loss. How do you find the strength to cope with losing the ones you hold dearest? Hats off to these women for baring their hearts and souls.

The Myth Of Having It All –  Asking the question , what does “all” really  mean? A fantastic discussion with some great thoughts all around . I will share a couple of sentences that were said which struck a real chord with me.

Make what you have matter rather than trying to have it all.

Most women give up their powers because they think they don’t have any.

Thought provoking stuff!

Speaking of girl power, here are some uber awesome chicks I got to hang out with at the conference!

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clockwise : Rhianna from AParenting Life ,  Salz from Salz Dummy Spit and Dea from Mama Stylista planning cheeky exits, Dea,myself, Ang from School Of Mum and Salz, Catherine , myself and Salz,Dea and myself at the photo booth, beautiful room with a stool, Salz and Dea pretending to read, Johanna from Strawberry Communications and CJ from 10%inspired, The castle in all its glory.

{Guys, I wrote this piece very late into the night and never got around to asking if it was okay to feature your pics but if anyone would like to have their picture removes, please feel free to email me – Thanks :) }

Another great session was My Blog, My Story. I was a bit late for this one but so glad I made it. This is where bloggers come  on stage and share a post on how they began their blogging journey. Some regaled us with their humour and brilliant expressions while others were courageous in sharing stories so close to their hearts, they reminded us to be so grateful for all our blessings and then some.  By the end of this session, I doubt that there would have been a dry eye  in the hall.

Sometimes life gives you a pretty crappy hand but we  must learn how to play it well..

Through tragedy, I found my path.

Two other sessions I found particularly impressive were to do with monetising your blog :

Charge your worth.

Marketing to Digital Parents. Win / Win / Win Collaboration with Brands

Some fantastic tips there too!

dpcon13 gala dinner

The event came to a final close with everyone getting together for a grand gala dinner preceded by some exquisite canapés and drinks at the castle rooftop garden. Great company, delicious food, awesome  music and guess what ? My kids have renewed respect for me thanks to the  DPCON13 harlem shake ! I promise you it makes us mummy and daddy bloggers look like rock stars.

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Alright! So what did I learn from DPCON13? Let me try and sum it up in 5 I mean 8 short points.

  1. Kindness is a way of life.
  2. Blogging is not broadcasting, it is communicating ( Thank you Nikki Parkinson – Styling you)
  3. Sometimes people aren’t who they seem to be and sometimes they are much more than you originally thought.
  4. You may lose track of day, time and significant  political happenings while engrossed at a Bloggers Conference. Hey at one stage, we thought Julia Gillard wouldn’t be PM anymore.
  5. Every time you stumble, every time you hit rock bottom, remember that there is someone else out there who has had worse than you. Be strong, be courageous, stand tall. Be YOU.
  6. Never, never, never give up.
  7. You do not attempt to wing cupcake decorating. Ever.
  8. Purple iPhone chargers are the best thing to happen to iPhones. No seriously.

I came away from DPCON13  even more overwhelmed than I had felt while going in. So many emotions, so much to take back, mull over, countless inspiring stories and a head buzzing with ideas on how to go forward. It has taken me a good 4 days to finally emerge from my dpcon13 happy bubble but I come away deeply humbled and grateful, much more aware of my weaknesses but also my strengths. I come away more determined to go places. And I suppose that’s not such a bad thing after all!

So thankyou DPCON13 for this fabulous celebration of the blogger community. Brenda Gaddi, Melissa Gassman and the rest of the team , great show guys!

I leave you today with a picture that is special to me. She exudes warmth and humour in her words.  She surprised me with her considered compassion as she hosted the very emotionally charged Blogging Through Adversity session and she had me in stitches when she spoke of  Defriending Grandma.  She’s funny, she’s witty and a truly wonderful girl inside out, I am so glad I got a chance to hang out with her for a bit.

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The lovely Grace from With Some Grace

Linking up with Grace ofcourse for FYBF.

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Happy Birthday Mumchic.

Sisters are amazing. I don’t talk much about mine here on Mumchic but quite honestly, I would be lost without her. She is my biggest and most honest reality check.

Sometime back in early February of 2012, clearly under the influence of some delicious meal I had cooked for her, she said

“You have such great recipes, why don’t you start a blog?”

“But I had a blog, remember?”

“Err yeaah in 2006 or something?”

That came with the look that spells “wtf” in not so many words…. it’s a special wordless exchange that happens between sisters, you won’t understand.

Anywho back to the blog suggestion , I have a feeling she had wind of my floundering ways and thought I was wasting too much important brain space on watching melodramatic Pakistani plays and needed to do something constructive with the little free time I had.

You see, this isn’t the first time someone has suggested writing again but this time around the idea stuck with me. Longer than usual.

And thus out of a random conversation with my little sister, Mumchic was born. Once I had decided that that I was going to start a blog, we agonised  over the theme and a name for weeks eventually deciding on Mum Chic – a hub of all things delicious and chic for but not restricted to mums.

And this little baby is exactly a year old today!

Happy Birthday Mumchic.

Nothing worth having comes easy

Nothing worth having comes easy.

What a journey it has been.The highs, the lows, the joy of creation. If there is one thing I have learnt this past year, it is this. When you love what you do, when you are passionate about what you are building, no hour in the night is too late, no dream futile, no vision too big. Yes it takes courage to do something out of the box and a lot of willpower because as with any uncharted path, there are tests.But that is when you persevere, that is when you give it your best shot.The results might just astound you.

I started blogging as a complete rookie, I had the words but I also had a lot to learn about the game I was playing. Scheduling posts, linkies, PR, coneferences, social media… you name it! So much to take in, I felt overwhelmed. As my readership grew, my goals changed too – I now had plans for this blog but I also had a pressing need to understand the space better.  The trouble with the business of blogging is, the bigger it grows, the bigger you want it to grow. I reached out to people asking for mentorship. Some were extremely gracious and generous, some not so much but I learnt from it, either way.

But having said all of that, my greatest take away of all  from the past year has been the beautiful bloggy friendships I have found along the way and all the mind blowing stories I have been able to read. I feel previleged to have been able to share mine with you.

And last but not the least, the love and untiring support of everyone out there : fellow bloggers, readers, followers, family and friends – Mumchic would not have been here without your support :) . Thankyou for putting up with me for a whole year, I promise as I did at the start of the year to bring you better and more exciting things in the year to come.

And before I forget, a special thank you to the person who waved her magic wand and made it all happen!

Thank you little sister. Love you.

P.S I still watch above mentioned melodramatic Pakistani plays, only difference is nowadays the usually play in the background while I write. A girl’s gotta keep up with her plays right?

P.P.S I am writing this post past 1am under a heavy influence of chocolate. If it seems to sappy tomorrow morning, you may blame the chocolate, or the clock or both.

Have you reached a blogging milestone? How did you celebrate?’

Is there something you would like to see more of here on Mumchic over the coming year?

Linking up with the wonderful Grace at With Some Grace for FYBF.

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A Courageous Path.

Never allow yourself to be bullied.

Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them.
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Sky Palette.


Canberra sunsets

Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky.

-Rabindranath Tagore

 

Linking up with the lovely Bree at Twinkle In The Eye Blog for Wordless Wednesday

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The Tall Poppy Project By Kylie Patchett {Review and Giveaway}

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Do you sometimes feel like you have lost that drive to live a fulfilled life doing the things you love most? Lacking inspiration? Enter The Tall Poppy Project by Kylie Patchett….. a book written to help you design the life you desire for yourself. Forensic scientist turned life and health coach, Kylie grabs the reader with an account of how she herself felt tied down to a job she didn’t love, a gap she couldn’t fill , a life story that didn’t quite fit…. a story so many of us can relate to.

The book is largely based on 7 principles of  what Kylie terms as Radical Self RespectPurpose, Pause, Pleasure, People, Prosperity, Plate and Power. How do we bring greater purpose and strike a balance in our lives, how do we stop neglecting our bodies? How do we create better, healthier relationships? How do we stake a claim on this wonderful life? While the book encourages us to think ahead, think positive , it also asks us to pause and reflect, recognise our issues, highlight the need for change and then equips us with the tools necessary to make those changes including suggestions, ideas, exercises within the book and online worksheets.

I am a sucker for quotes and The Tall Poppy Project is peppered with many inspiring ones perfectly complemented by Kylie’s conversational tone throughout the book. Never once did i feel patronized or being judged while reading the book. While it may not address every single aspect of our lives and we may not agree with some of the concepts that Kylie advocates, this book certainly gets us thinking and sometimes that is all we need! A little nudge.

What we take away from The tall Poppy Project is very subjective as with any self development book. It is certainly not a fix your life step by step manual but it is a book that will help you reflect, initiate change and perhaps help you take some steps to design the life you desire for yourself. I will leave you with a few lines from the book that particulcarly sang out to me.

Life is about leaving a legacy. About how you made people feel. And the only way to make the massive impact you were born to make is to integrate body, mind and soul. Let your inner wisdom guide you to match your physical life to your blue-print for contribution to the whole.

{Giveaway – Winners Announced}

A big thank you to all of you who entered our giveaway and now it’s time to announce the winners. It was a tough one with some fantastic responses so i have decided that instead of 2, we will have 3 winners! Exciting isn’t it?

The winners are :

Hayley Tehan

Rebecca

Cassandra CJ Wunsch

Congratulations ladies, well done! Hope The Tall Poppy Project brings true all that you desire for yourself in 2013.

Please contact me us mumschic@gmail.com with your postal address to arrange delivery :)

Kylie Patchett has kindly sent through 2 copies of The Tall Poppy Project to giveaway to Mumchic readers in Australia.

There are three easy steps to entering the competition, here we go !

1.Tell me what changes (big or small) are you making for yourself in 2013.

2.Like us on Facebook  and Twitter if you don’t already cause y’know that kind of makes you awesome !

3.Share this page on your Facebook timeline set to public and tweet the link to all your twitter followers.

And that’s it you’re in! Good Luck :)

Giveaway closes on midnight Friday 8th February 2013. Winners will be announced on Sunday 10th February 2013.Each winner will receive 1 copy of The Tall Poppy Project.

For  a detailed copy of the detailed T&Cs, please contact me on mumschic@gmail.com

Disclosure: This is not a paid sponsored post, all thoughts and opinions expressed in this article are my own. I received 3 complimentary copies of the book for review and giveaway purposes. 

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The Business of Wanderlust – The story of John Anderson, Founder of Contiki Holidays {Part 2}

wanderlust

noun

[mass noun]

  • a strong desire to travel:a man consumed by wanderlust


John Anderson Contiki

If you missed part 1, find it here. All caught up? Great! Now on to part 2!

The Business of Wanderlust – The story of John Anderson, Founder – Contiki Holidays {Part 2}


As part 1 of the interview drew to a close, John spoke to me about the many love stories that came to be on Contiki tours including his own…

Me: I have never been on a Contiki tour, but I have spoken to so many people who have been on one, and everybody recounted their time touring with Contiki with such fondness. They talk about friendships that have lasted years and decades, and countless people including yourself have found their life partners while on tour. Do you recollect any special story that totally stands out amidst the box of life-changing experiences?

John: I would have never found my wife If I had not taken that tour (laughs)! Its amazing Sabeen, how many people it has touched. Its amazing how many times it changed their lives. You mention about meetups, there are still reunions going on forty years on!

Me: Wow !

John: Not too long ago, I went to a reunion of passengers who had traveled on Contiki, it was twenty member touring party who took the tour in 1965, and sixteen of that original group had turned up for the meetup! Fifty years on! Unbelievable isn’t it?

Me: That is seriously unbelievable John…

John: When it comes to marriages, I have a great story for you. There was this girl who contacted me to tell her story. She said that she was quite an introvert and her mother forced her to go overseas to Europe on a trip. She eventually met her life partner on the trip! When they got married, the bridesmaid and groomsmen were passengers, when they had children, their godparents were passengers! The stories do not end there. Few days ago I was having lunch where a guy mentioned, not only did he meet his wife on a tour, their daughter Catherine was conceived on a tour, and then, listen to this, twenty years later , Catherine found his life-partner within a Contiki staff while she was on a Contiki tour. So thats a full circle right there, from two strangers meeting, the conception of their child, and the she ends marrying a staff of Contiki! I think its amazing.

Me: It is fascinating to hear these stories.

John: Do you know, we get five or six marriages of one tour? In a tour of 50, you often get two or three, with the odd trip pulling of five or six ! Things happen when you throw a lot of young people together, particularly if they are single, and really why not, love is a beautiful feeling!

Me: Absolutely. Moreover, the environment itself is so uninhibited, people be themselves, having a good time and you are in that happy sort of mode, after-all holidays are all about being happy.

John: Come to think of it, Contiki is a great company to work with because its all about fun, young people, experiencing things together, the staff is young and vibrant, particularly those on the road in Europe, some of them are simply outstanding, a lot of them of-course come back and make careers, and often they say their training with the company, what it had taught them later in life to achieve, and go on to do great things. I don’t have a Prime Minister yet ( laughs ) but captains of industries are certainly present amongst the contiki alumni.

 Me:John, tell us a little bit about your autobiography – Only Two Seats Left. It is about your journey with Contiki. What inspired you to write a book?

John: It’s a story that had to be told, how an idea became an international iconic brand in several countries, and I thought I have got to tell the story, because I am the only one who knows it and I have been there from start to finish. Secondly, I wanted the people who were involved in the beginning to know what the company went on to do. I realized that is is eventually going to be a business book where I would share the learnings of my life, in a story form. So the book is an autobiography related to travel and business but in-fact when you read it, it reads like a novel. There are two murders in there, a chapter on my court cases, Its just a very entertaining read and I hope it inspires readers to go out there and achieve great things. I was a B-class boy in school for goodness sake and I went on to establish an International company. Its all about the right attitude, getting the right people around you to help you and do solve problems and innovate.

Me: John I recently read a quote by the founder of Amazon, Jeff Bezos, and hit me quite strongly, especially as someone who is trying to start out too. The quote goes like this – “Entrepreneurs must be willing to be misunderstood for long periods of time” – Would you say it’s been true for your journey as well?

John: Oh, absolutely. Particularly, the brave entrepreneurs. Quite often a brave entrepreneur comes up with an idea that at first glance seems crazy, and the more risky it seems to be internally, the more hindrance he faces from people, both internal and external. Its not easy for people to see through the founder’s vision, not at all. I touch upon all sorts of risks taken by me in the book, including an idea of moving our headquarters to Hong Kong for better taxation instead of keeping it in UK. Everybody thought I was crazy. If you listen to all the negative response, you will never do it. You have to hold very strongly to your core beliefs, because if you don’t others will convince you that its not worth giving it a go. Of-course, you should definitely listen to and analyze all the feedback you get from your close ones, so that most decisions you take is driven by rationality and data. I didn’t always listen, I was a bit bloody minded, entrepreneurs are a bit like that, they do not like hearing No, and this you will read in the book, I was advised not to do Hotel and Resorts by a few close ones, but I did and that undid me! So sometimes you have to draw the line, take feedback in, rationalize and act judiciously.

Me: You have a wonderful life story John, but is there anything that you would go back and change?

I’d say, on the business side, I would have gone with a business partner much early on. Two heads are better than one, you share the decision making and you share the risk of capital, you also get there twice as quick! So yes, if you can, get a co-founder while starting a company. On the personal side, however much I would hate to admit, what I would change is , when you have your own business, it consumes you, and the business became more important than your family. I have four children, I would often go to work in the morning when the children were in bed, and then when I got back in night, they were already asleep. I did not give my children a whole lot of time up until their age of five. Now I often advise people who are starting a business, make sure you get your balance right, sure if you can get the company up and running it will enable you to provide in a much a better way, but always look to keep a balance.

Me: Thank you John, that’s a great piece of advice. We have come to fag end of this interview! Here is my last question – What would you have to say to our readers about life, love and following your dreams?

John: (Smiles) I will give you my favourite quote by Arthur Rubinstein, the renowned classical pianist – “Love life, and life will love you back, love people and they will love you back”.

Me: Wow

John: And about following your dreams, it’s all about attitude, belief in yourself, belief in what you want to do, and go for it. That’s exactly what I did.

Me: You have a sensational life story John Anderson, thank you so very much for speaking with us.

John: Thanks for having me, Sabeen. You take care, go forth and make your dreams come true and I hope your readers find this tete-a-tete valuable ( Smiles ).

What a personality, what a remarkable life story. A big THANKYOU to John Anderson for being a guest on Mumchic and sharing with us his amazing story which I am sure has inspired many.

What is your favourite part of John’s story?

Linking up with the gorgeous Grace  via With Some Grace for FYBF.

Only Two Seats Left is available in all good book stores and also online here.

Disclaimer :This article is NOT a paid endorsement for either John Anderson or Contiki Holidays. John agreed to be interviewed for the article after I contacted him and requested him share his story with us.

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{Wordless Wednesday} Sunset And The Summer’s Wind.

canberra sunset

The summer wind came blowin’ in
From across the sea
It lingered there to touch your hair
And walk with me

All summer long
we sang a song
And then we strolled that golden sand
Two sweethearts and the summer wind

Like painted kites, those days and nights
They went flying by
The world was new beneath the blue
Umbrella sky

Then softer than a piper man
One day, it called to you
I lost you I lost you to
The summer wind

The Summer Wind – Lyrics by Johnny Mercer

Have you heard the song?

Linking up with Twinkle In The Eye Blog  and My Little Drummer Boys   for Wordless Wednesday.

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The Quintessential Birthday Post And Life’s Second Chances.

The Quintessential Birthday Post.

 

34.

It’s not a big birthday. Hardly so. But as another year of my life winds to a close, I find myself reflecting back to my big 30th.

Let me take you back to 2009. The year I turned 30. The year I changed my life… for good.

It was a year of awakening for me, the year that I decided I would not survive any longer under oppression, I wanted to LIVE. I wanted my children to experience life fully, unfiltered. Lying just ahead was a monumental task for someone who felt defeated. In 2009, my self esteem had hit record lows, a battered personality and a broken soul.

What followed was a battle against the odds. A fight I will never forget.I stood my ground, firmly..surprising myself and those around me. It is a long story and while I will not get into all the details of it today, lets just say it was never pleasant. If ever, my strength and resilience have been tested, this was it. Turning 30 was like going through a personal avalanche. Read more about my thoughts on turning  30 here.

Fast Forward 4 years.

A few hard facts and a recap.

You make a choice. You stick by it. Simple.

My life is far from perfect but it is a lot more peaceful than it would have been in a toxic situation.

The biggest criticism I copped was that I was making a decision for myself but not for my children. Errr say that again and I might clobber ya!

Parenting is the hardest job in the world. Solo-parenting harder. But when I see their innocent smiles, their twinkling eyes brimming with michief, curiosity and love tucked away somewhere in there too, softly nestled in the many lazy morning cuddles…all the exhaustion of solo parenting melts away.

At 16, I wanted to be a writer. Post babies, my wonderful friend and one of most inspiring writers I know, Miss R encouraged me to write how I was feeling as I went through severe depression, I didn’t get very far. Then one day in 2012 the baby sister said , you cook so well, why not start a blog?

Feb-12 I started writing again. Just like that.

I have realised that post 30, birthdays tend to matter less and sadly, even the baby sister is now old enough to be treated like an adult! That makes me feel OLD , instantly.

At 30, I established I had many acquaintances but very few genuine friends. The past 4 years have strongly cemented that.

I have resurrected for my children and myself a life without any external assistance from anyone. A part of me is very proud. And yet, there are many places to go, lots more to accomplish.

Last but not the least important, life gives us a second chance and when it does, we must grab it, with both hands. That one split second, that one second chance has the potential to change the course of our lives forever.

I will leave you with a picture from this day last year that is very special to me and a verse from a poem I read very often.

Birthday

Two roads diverged in a wood and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference

Have you ever taken a chance that changed the course of your life completely?

Linking up with Essentially Jess for IBOT

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The Business of Wanderlust – The story of John Anderson, Founder of Contiki Holidays {Part 1}

wanderlust

noun

[mass noun]

  • a strong desire to travel:a man consumed by wanderlust


John Anderson Contiki

John Anderson took a particular liking towards Geography when he was in school. The maps tantalized him, called out to him. Little did he know, that many years later he would change the way people travel world over, making young travelers’ dreams to traverse across countries a reality, at a cost, that was unheard-of before.

When I first heard John speak at a conference, I was spellbound. He spoke about his life-story with tremendous fervour and passion, clearly a life well-lived. He talked about the genesis behind Contiki Holidays, an inspiring concoction of wanderlust, entrepreneurism and brilliant marketing. He talked about Contiki’s growth, the organisational challenges of scaling, the myriad complexities of currency, the numerous love stories and beautiful memories that made the journey worthwhile.

I want to learn more about this inspiring man, I told myself. I wanted to hear more about his journey of life. The power of the internet is sometimes mesmerising. I cold-emailed John, requesting him for a conversation, inviting him for an interview. And as luck would have it, in a couple of days, he gladly obliged.

The conversation that followed was a potent mix of entreprenuership, adventure, passion, travel that transcended over several decades. A truly inspiring life story, one that should be told and must be told! Grab a cuppa and read on, you never know this is a conversation that might change your life for good!

The Business of Wanderlust – The story of John Anderson, Founder – Contiki Holidays {Part 1}


Me : John, lets start from the start, your childhood. What is a memory from back then that you really cherish even today?

John : Well, I suppose I do not know when childhood really finishes off. Does it ever? ( Laughs) But I do recall that my parents separated when I was 5 and I did not see my father again until I was 8. I was very young then and reuniting with my father was a special event that still stands out in my mind. He went overseas thereafter and I met him much later in life when I went to London.

Me : That is pretty special! London is it where it all started, isn’t it? But before we get to that part of the story, I want to ask you this – As someone who redefined the way young people holidayed in the sixties and seventies, how and when did you yourself get the travel bug?

John : I have always been very keen on Geography in school, I don’t know what they call it today ( laughs ) and I have always been fascinated with various parts of the world, the different people and cultures, their history, the small nuances and in my teens I constantly met older people who had already been overseas and they used to come back with these amazing tales. I developed a deep desire to do it myself one day, sooner rather than later. The inhibiting factors to this was that in those days you needed to have a career which people understood ( both laugh) and of-course you needed to have money. So I went for a career first and started saving money so that I could make my dream a reality. I finally saved enough and started traveling when I was twenty-three years old. Mind you, twenty-three was very young those days, and in the sixties, it was very unusual for someone to go overseas at that age. It would be the equivalent to a sixteen year old of today.

Me : I can relate to that deeply. I became a mother very young and I have never done the travel but when you are young thing, but when I was still in my teens, I kept hearing these stories of people’s experiences and the travel bug bites you hard then. It is truly wonderful that you gave wings to your dream and defied conventions.

John : It’s never too late. Moreover, It was worth it (Smiles).

Me : Right! Lets get to the summer of 1962 then. You are twenty three. You were in London. Is that right John?

John : Absolutely! I arrived in London having traveled the East (Europe) a bit already with just twenty-five pounds in my pocket. Twenty Five dollars would be equivalent to five hundred US dollars today. Simply put, I was broke. But I had to find a way to see Europe in all its grandeur. That is when I had this idea – if I could put together a group of other young travelers, who would share accommodation and travel costs and cook their own meals – we could all probably travel at a very reasonable cost. So I put together an itinerary and advertised the tour, and I got eleven people to join me!At that stage, I had no money, no bus, no other passengers, and once I had one passenger booked, two more followed, and in no-time, I had eleven!

At that stage, I had no money, no bus, no other passengers, and once I had one passenger booked, two more followed, and in no-time, I had eleven!

Me : You did that little plug of ‘only two seats’ left to promote it a little bit, didn’t you? That was marketing genius!

John : (Laughs) Yes, I put this tour together and I gave the impression that that it was close to being fully booked with only two seats left. It’s amazing, and I have learnt this through various experiences in my life, if you make something hard for people to get, they often go on to wanting it really badly. I created this artificial scarcity, and advertised it nicely – There were only two seats left. Reading that note, someone came and asked – ‘Can I have one of the last seats please?’ This was a girl from Adelaide and I convinced her to book on the tour. At that stage, I had no money, no bus, no other passengers, and once I had one passenger booked, two more followed, and in no-time, I had eleven!

Me : This is just fascinating. This is the part where I heard you at the conference and thought , boy, this is an example of such pure hustle and ingenious marketing. In today’s day and age, we call such events going viral !

John : Oh yeah ! ( Smiles )

Me : John, there is a story amongst one of those first tours – and I remember you mentioning this as well elsewhere – you thought there wouldn’t be any money left, or enough money left to get the travel party to Spain, which was the next destination. So you decided to take a calculated risk there, didn’t you?

John : Yes, it was the second tour in the first year. I took one tour around, and then I took another, but on the second tour, I was close to running out of money ten days before the trip was supposed to end. I had to find a way around it. That is when I decided to try my luck at a local casino!  Of-course, the story had a happy ending, I had just about enough money to get my passengers back to London, but with my casino earnings, I made it sure the trip would be completed in its entirety. It is wonderful story and looks double interesting in hindsight ! I always recommend people to give things a try ( not necessarily at a casino though, ha ), if you do not, you will never know. If I had lost at the casino, I would have had to tell everybody and maybe something else positive would have transpired from there. Its important to keep pushing the envelope.

Me: That is such a great message for people out there you are looking at taking something forward but are not able to because of various reasons – “Give something a go” and you never know what happens next.

John: Moreover, if you have an idea, do not research it to death. If you do, you might end up  never doing it,  because then you come up with all the downsides. I often would judge things by listing down the positives and the negatives and then if my gut feel says its worth it, then l say lets give it a try, and If it doesn’t work, try something else. If you read my book, you will see I tried all sorts of things that did not work out, but I did try, and a lot of things I tried, did work out brilliantly of-course.

If we believe we ought to do something, we figure out a way to do it. It is this inner confidence that entrepreneurs have pushes them forward. Infact I think that entrepreneurs are born and leaders are made.

Me: Fantastic! John, I am sure the first few months of your European sojourns were all fun and travel, but what was that one moment when you realised that Contiki could be huge and you really want to pursue this for long?

John: Well, I am an entrepreneur and entrepreneurs are funny beasts, we don’t have a negative thought, we can often be quite dangerous because we get carried away playing with our fertile minds. If we believe we ought to do something, we figure out a way to do it. It is this inner confidence that entrepreneurs have pushes them forward. Infact I think that entrepreneurs are born and leaders are made. I have met lots of entrepreneurs and they all have a natural sort of attitude to life. Things kept happening while I was building Contiki and I just kept going with the flow. I am still doing crazy things actually, traveling across South America at my age!

Me: John, when you grow a brand you face a myriad of challenges, what sort of difficulties did you face , how did you rise above competition and what do you think was an advantage?

John: I learnt early on that in business honesty and integrity is fundamental. I knew I had a product that a lot of young Australians and New Zealanders coming over to Europe in the sixties wanted strongly. Beyond that, the secret behind why the brand has lasted really comes down to a number of things, I am a great believer in Quality and I established a high level of quality  across all functions of Contiki, the product itself was uniquely positioned and personalized heavily, we also had a good pulse on the details of what different customers wanted, we were good at selling our product and we were constantly innovating. Just because a tour worked this year, we never automatically assumed that it would work next year as well. All these factors contributed in Contiki growing as a business and a brand. When I look at Contiki today, the product is in essence the same, but they have fine tuned it to what the market wants today. In the sixties, people wanted to go for around three months to travel around Europe, but now they won’t go for six weeks. So yes, you need a product that is strong and you need to know how to sell it well.  Its no good having one without the other.

Me: So you put a lot of emphasis on Sales and Marketing right from the get go of the venture?

John: Absolutely. Moreover, on the marketing side, its a very data driven approach these days. We do a huge amount of research, constantly. The travel agents actually log what the customers are coming in and looking for, we research passengers that we did not get, we research why did they not go on our tours, we research why they went on our competitors’ tours, and we also research people who are on tour, get their feedback on what would they want us to do differently, what are the things that worked from them. We are constantly monitoring the satisfaction or dissatisfaction levels of our customers, and all this data is channeled back into our marketing campaigns, as well as decisions around the product. Also, social media plays a big part in the building of a brand these days,  not only do potential customers interact with us on channels like Twitter and Facebook, they can also meet their potential tour partners on these channels and the Contiki website, a month before they are actually going on tour!

Me: I totally agree. It is a completely different world out there these days, the pace of innovation around human communication is breathtaking to watch.

John: Yes absolutely, It’s all about having the right information before you decide and having a more satisfying experience in the process.

 

I would have never found my wife If I had not taken that tour.

Me: I have never been on a Contiki tour myself, but I have spoken to so many people who have been on one including Mumchic readers, and everyone recounted their time touring with Contiki with such fondness. They talk about friendships that have lasted years and decades, and countless people including yourself have found their life partners while on tour. Do you recollect any special story that totally stands out amidst the box of life-changing experiences?

John: I would have never found my wife If I had not taken that tour (laughs)! Its amazing Sabeen, how many people it has touched. Its amazing how many times it changed their lives. You mention about meetups, there are still reunions going on forty years on!

How romantic.. John met his wife on a Contiki Tour! I bet you are hooked by now !

And that is a wrap of Part 1 of my interview with John Anderson. In the next and final part, John and I delve further into the Business Of Wanderlust and  what inspired him to write an autobiography, now a published book,  “Only Two Seats Left”.

 

So far, what is your best takeaway from John Anderson’s interview?

{Stay Tuned for Part 2!}

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Disclaimer :This article is NOT a paid endorsement for either John Anderson or Contiki Holidays. John agreed to be interviewed for the article after I contacted him and requested him share his story with us.

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