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DPCON13 Two Days, A Castle And Inspiration Unlimited.

Last week, around a 150 Australian mum and dad bloggers came together over two days at the Digital Parents Conference 2013 aka DPCON13. Not only was it a great occasion to learn more about emerging trends in the blogosphere, mingle and network with peers, seek mentorship from some of the best but also to be inspired, humbled and touched by  the most heart breaking and  moving stories of  loss,heartbreak, love, hope and strength.

Also, for so many of us first timers,  DPCON13  presented an opportunity to finally be able to meet in person with so many of our favourite bloggers/friends. I must admit, the lead up to the event had been a very messy one for me, very messy indeed! So I may have been part consumed with mother guilt for those two days in Sydney.

Feeling overwhelmed, excited, proud, nervous all rolled into one, I made my way into the nothing short of magnificent Curzon Hall that first day.

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What a grand venue!

Being greeted so affectionately at the registration desk by the very lovely Tina Gray of TGDM was such a perfect way to kick off the conference.

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Once inside the main hall, the anxiety of being a first timer slowly peeled away. The ambience, warm, happy and vibrant. Smiles everywhere you turned to look. I knew I was amongst my own. I also knew for the next two days, I could be glued to my phone/laptop/social media streams and it wouldn’t be considered rude. Win!

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And so I tweeted and tweeted and tweeted.

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Not at all limited to these but some of the sessions that I enjoyed incredibly  were :

Can Blogging Increase Kindness – Jono Fisher from Wake Up Sydney  kicked off the conference with a great keynote on the power of kindness. How a simple  act of giving has the  potential to go a long way. Pay it forward, make kindness contagious!

Blogging Through Adversity – 3 strong women and their stories of heartbreak and loss. How do you find the strength to cope with losing the ones you hold dearest? Hats off to these women for baring their hearts and souls.

The Myth Of Having It All –  Asking the question , what does “all” really  mean? A fantastic discussion with some great thoughts all around . I will share a couple of sentences that were said which struck a real chord with me.

Make what you have matter rather than trying to have it all.

Most women give up their powers because they think they don’t have any.

Thought provoking stuff!

Speaking of girl power, here are some uber awesome chicks I got to hang out with at the conference!

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clockwise : Rhianna from AParenting Life ,  Salz from Salz Dummy Spit and Dea from Mama Stylista planning cheeky exits, Dea,myself, Ang from School Of Mum and Salz, Catherine , myself and Salz,Dea and myself at the photo booth, beautiful room with a stool, Salz and Dea pretending to read, Johanna from Strawberry Communications and CJ from 10%inspired, The castle in all its glory.

{Guys, I wrote this piece very late into the night and never got around to asking if it was okay to feature your pics but if anyone would like to have their picture removes, please feel free to email me – Thanks :) }

Another great session was My Blog, My Story. I was a bit late for this one but so glad I made it. This is where bloggers come  on stage and share a post on how they began their blogging journey. Some regaled us with their humour and brilliant expressions while others were courageous in sharing stories so close to their hearts, they reminded us to be so grateful for all our blessings and then some.  By the end of this session, I doubt that there would have been a dry eye  in the hall.

Sometimes life gives you a pretty crappy hand but we  must learn how to play it well..

Through tragedy, I found my path.

Two other sessions I found particularly impressive were to do with monetising your blog :

Charge your worth.

Marketing to Digital Parents. Win / Win / Win Collaboration with Brands

Some fantastic tips there too!

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The event came to a final close with everyone getting together for a grand gala dinner preceded by some exquisite canapés and drinks at the castle rooftop garden. Great company, delicious food, awesome  music and guess what ? My kids have renewed respect for me thanks to the  DPCON13 harlem shake ! I promise you it makes us mummy and daddy bloggers look like rock stars.

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Alright! So what did I learn from DPCON13? Let me try and sum it up in 5 I mean 8 short points.

  1. Kindness is a way of life.
  2. Blogging is not broadcasting, it is communicating ( Thank you Nikki Parkinson – Styling you)
  3. Sometimes people aren’t who they seem to be and sometimes they are much more than you originally thought.
  4. You may lose track of day, time and significant  political happenings while engrossed at a Bloggers Conference. Hey at one stage, we thought Julia Gillard wouldn’t be PM anymore.
  5. Every time you stumble, every time you hit rock bottom, remember that there is someone else out there who has had worse than you. Be strong, be courageous, stand tall. Be YOU.
  6. Never, never, never give up.
  7. You do not attempt to wing cupcake decorating. Ever.
  8. Purple iPhone chargers are the best thing to happen to iPhones. No seriously.

I came away from DPCON13  even more overwhelmed than I had felt while going in. So many emotions, so much to take back, mull over, countless inspiring stories and a head buzzing with ideas on how to go forward. It has taken me a good 4 days to finally emerge from my dpcon13 happy bubble but I come away deeply humbled and grateful, much more aware of my weaknesses but also my strengths. I come away more determined to go places. And I suppose that’s not such a bad thing after all!

So thankyou DPCON13 for this fabulous celebration of the blogger community. Brenda Gaddi, Melissa Gassman and the rest of the team , great show guys!

I leave you today with a picture that is special to me. She exudes warmth and humour in her words.  She surprised me with her considered compassion as she hosted the very emotionally charged Blogging Through Adversity session and she had me in stitches when she spoke of  Defriending Grandma.  She’s funny, she’s witty and a truly wonderful girl inside out, I am so glad I got a chance to hang out with her for a bit.

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The lovely Grace from With Some Grace

Linking up with Grace ofcourse for FYBF.

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A Courageous Path.

Never allow yourself to be bullied.

Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them.
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

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{Wordless Wednesday} Fabulous Son 1 Takes A Shot.

Here’s a photo taken by Fab Son 1 (9) this afternoon , I know I have done a lot of sunsets lately but I also knew this photo had to be shared. They say the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, not that I am bragging or anything ;)

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So beautifully captured.

Linking up with lovely Bree at Twinkle In The Eye Blog  and the wonderful Trish at My Little Drummer Boys   for Wordless Wednesday.

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Plan It To Perfection {Personal Planner Giveaway}

I am a list ninja. While I try (unsuccessfully on most days) to create, organise and maintain a mental list of the myriad things I must accomplish in a day , to err is human and I err a lot. Lets just blame it on the depleting brain cells. So I decided, right the mental list thing isn’t quite working and I keep losing all the lists I write on post it notes , maybe I need to start using my smartphone better.  I started making lists on the phone but while it’s a great short term solution, with my current family and blog commitments , I need something personal and visual. Somewhere to jot it all down and plan ahead. Needless to say, ofcourse , I was thrilled when the wonderful team at Personal Planner got in touch with me to host a giveaway for Mumchic readers and what great timing too with the new year and new routines now in full gear for most of us.

I absolutely loved the design interface of Personal Planner offering endless design possibilities. From an impressive color palette to the choices of inlays, there is  even a much needed checkbox feature to tick off  those daily essentials! My personal favourite feature though is how the planner can be integrated with Facebook to add family and friend’s birthdays. Now that’s what you call a smart planner :)

Here are a few key features to love about the Personal Planner :

  • Design the front/back cover
  • Tons of ways to design the inside to suit your style & needs
  • Add friends & family members birthdays to the inlay
  • Choose between 4 different sizes
  • You pick the start date

It indeed a very savvy planner perfect for those of us who struggle to keep on top of our busy lifestyles and gets a big thumbs up from me on the style quotient. Who said planners had to be boring! More info on the Personal Planner can be found at the links below :

Website : http://personal-planner.com.au

Facebook :  https://www.facebook.com/PersonalPlannerAU

{Giveaway – Winner Announced}

A big thankyou to everyone who entered this giveaway. What a difficult  decision it was ! Almost everyone is dealing with the same organisation battles and challenges :)

Here are the winners :

1st (For the Personal Planner ) : Angie Boylan

(new) Runner Up (For the PP Notebook) : Jessie Reid 

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

Please contact me on mumschic@gmail.com with your email to arrannge prizes :)

And now for some great news! We are teaming up with the fantastic team at Personal Planner to giveaway TWO great prizes. The winner of this giveaway will receive a fully custom-made Personal Planner and the runner up will receive a Personalised Notebook also by Personal Planner.

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Here’s how to enter :

1. Tell us in 25 words what is your biggest personal organisation challenge?

2. Like Personal Planner and Mumchic on Facebook and leave us a comment to let us know that you did.

3. Share this link on your Facebook profile set to public and leave a comment here to let us know.

T&Cs

*open Internationally
*only one entry per person
*all entries will be verified for all of the above steps
*ONE winner and ONE runner-up will be chosen
*entries will close at midnight on Wednesday, 27th  February 2013
*Winner and runner up will be announced om Friday, 1st March 2013
*winner will be notified via email & an announcement will be made on the blog
*judge’s decision is final
*prizes are not transferable, changeable or redeemable for cash
*prizes will be sent through in the form of a voucher via email.

Disclaimer : No cash was received for this post, however Personal Planner provided us with the product for review purposes.

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Sky Palette.


Canberra sunsets

Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky.

-Rabindranath Tagore

 

Linking up with the lovely Bree at Twinkle In The Eye Blog for Wordless Wednesday

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The Quintessential Birthday Post And Life’s Second Chances.

The Quintessential Birthday Post.

 

34.

It’s not a big birthday. Hardly so. But as another year of my life winds to a close, I find myself reflecting back to my big 30th.

Let me take you back to 2009. The year I turned 30. The year I changed my life… for good.

It was a year of awakening for me, the year that I decided I would not survive any longer under oppression, I wanted to LIVE. I wanted my children to experience life fully, unfiltered. Lying just ahead was a monumental task for someone who felt defeated. In 2009, my self esteem had hit record lows, a battered personality and a broken soul.

What followed was a battle against the odds. A fight I will never forget.I stood my ground, firmly..surprising myself and those around me. It is a long story and while I will not get into all the details of it today, lets just say it was never pleasant. If ever, my strength and resilience have been tested, this was it. Turning 30 was like going through a personal avalanche. Read more about my thoughts on turning  30 here.

Fast Forward 4 years.

A few hard facts and a recap.

You make a choice. You stick by it. Simple.

My life is far from perfect but it is a lot more peaceful than it would have been in a toxic situation.

The biggest criticism I copped was that I was making a decision for myself but not for my children. Errr say that again and I might clobber ya!

Parenting is the hardest job in the world. Solo-parenting harder. But when I see their innocent smiles, their twinkling eyes brimming with michief, curiosity and love tucked away somewhere in there too, softly nestled in the many lazy morning cuddles…all the exhaustion of solo parenting melts away.

At 16, I wanted to be a writer. Post babies, my wonderful friend and one of most inspiring writers I know, Miss R encouraged me to write how I was feeling as I went through severe depression, I didn’t get very far. Then one day in 2012 the baby sister said , you cook so well, why not start a blog?

Feb-12 I started writing again. Just like that.

I have realised that post 30, birthdays tend to matter less and sadly, even the baby sister is now old enough to be treated like an adult! That makes me feel OLD , instantly.

At 30, I established I had many acquaintances but very few genuine friends. The past 4 years have strongly cemented that.

I have resurrected for my children and myself a life without any external assistance from anyone. A part of me is very proud. And yet, there are many places to go, lots more to accomplish.

Last but not the least important, life gives us a second chance and when it does, we must grab it, with both hands. That one split second, that one second chance has the potential to change the course of our lives forever.

I will leave you with a picture from this day last year that is very special to me and a verse from a poem I read very often.

Birthday

Two roads diverged in a wood and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference

Have you ever taken a chance that changed the course of your life completely?

Linking up with Essentially Jess for IBOT

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{Wordless Wednesday} Canberra Sleeps As The Sun Rises.

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A sunny day in Canberra.

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Canberra CBD

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Empty Roads

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No Coffee :(

It is a lazy first day back at work for Canberrans. With many people still either away or on holidays, traffic is sparse with a slow trickle of cars and public buses on the road. The CBD is still recovering from the remnants of late night partying over the past few weeks. Even the good coffee joints are still shut.

Sigh, as the sun rises to a still very sleepy Canberra, itmight be a few weeks before this city comes back into full gear.

Linking up with Twinkle In The Eye Blog for Wordless Wednesday.

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A Wish From Us To You.

Christmas wishes

Thank you for your fantastic support over 2012, thank you for helping me  make Mumchic a dream come true. We have some fantastic tie ups coming up in the New Year including a couple of great giveaways. Stay tuned for details.

But for now, here is a wish, from us to you. 

Hope you have a wonderful time celebrating with your  families, friends and loved ones. May it be a time of great happiness, warmth and laughter for you all. May 2013 be a year of wonderful new beginnings, may all your hopes and dreams come true.

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Beautiful Sunsets And Pink Ribbon Skies.

Come watch with me the shaft of fire that glows in yonder west: the fair, frail palaces, the fading alps and archipelagoes, And great cloud-continents of sunset-seas.

- Thomas Bailey Aldrich

This is a follow up post from yesterday’s photo session at  the Red Hill Lookout here in Canberra, for anyone who visits the capital, this is a beautiful hidden gem.  I snuck a  picture of my truly adorable and still very romantic parents enjoying the setting sun, turns out it is one of my favourite shots from yesterday.

Camera : Iphone 4s

No filters have been used to edit these photos.

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The Day The World Didn’t End.

21/12/12

The day the world didn’t end

Putting the Mayans and their miscalculations aside for a bit, the whole end of the world shebang gave people a reason to host end of the world parties, get married, make babies even! Heck one of the many online shopping sites I subscribe to  even had an end of the world sale. I am a shopaholic, the word “sale” is like gospel to me. But even I didn’t find that amusing. I mean why would I need a portable power pack for $199 if the world was about to end anway?!?

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Go figure!                                                                                                                 

Well looks like we have  well and truly survived this apocalypse, congratulations! I must admit that while I had been skeptical about the whole thing from the start, a little voice in me did say a silent prayer of gratitude for being alive when I opened my eyes this morning. With the 21/12/12 end of the world theory out of the way, a lot of people have turned their focus towards how the world has entered an era of peace and tranquility. Amen to that.

And that is enough from me on the subject. I will leave you with a beautiful shot from this afternoon ; The Sun embraces the Earth as it has every single day for 4.54 billion years (thankyou Wiki).

The day after….

The day the world didn’t end.

Sunset Canberra

(There are more pictures to come from today’s photography session, stay tuned!)

What were your thoughts on the world end scare? Did you half expect something drastic or dramatic to happen on 21/12/12 ?

Location : Red Hill Lookout – Canberra Australia 

Camera : Iphone 4S

Photography : Yours Truly

 

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